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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Fwd: Irretrievable Breakdown Of Marriage - Follow Up Note



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From: Majlis Law <majlislaw@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, Jul 12, 2010 at 11:03 PM
Subject: Irretrievable Breakdown Of Marriage - Follow Up Note
To: Majlis Law <majlislaw@gmail.com>


Irretrievable Breakdown Of Marriage

This is to thank all of you who have responded to our initial mail.

The issue
We are concerned with the news reports that the Cabinet has cleared the Bill to make Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage (IBM) a ground for divorce under the Hindu Marriage Act and the Special Marriage Act. The same is scheduled to be  introduced in the forthcoming session of the Parliament. 

Our demand
A discussion on women's right to matrimonial property should go alongside the discussion on irretrievable breakdown of marriage so that safeguards for women can be built into the provision.

The way forward
The National Commission for Women has committed to hold a day-long meeting in Mumbai on 24th July 2010 and invite concerned individuals and organizations to discuss the issue. Those who wish to attend this meeting can register their names at majlislaw@gmail.com or contact Ms. Sindhu at 022 26661252 / 26662394. National Commission for Women will reimburse outstation participants travel cost to Mumbai.


Thank you.

Flavia Agnes
Majlis

Attached is a list of groups and individuals who support the campaign. To add your names to this list please us an email.

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Majlis
4, A-2, Golden Valley,
Kalina Market Road,
Kalina, Santacruz (East)
Mumbai 400 098
Tel: 022 26661252 / 26662394
Email:
majlislaw@gmail.com
Website:
www.majlisbombay.org

Irretrievable Breakdown of Marriage (IBM)

Irretrievable breakdown of marriage is  an attempt to introduce one sided divorce in the Hindu Marriage Act and Special Marriage Act  .  Once it is passed, either spouse would not have to prove any matrimonial fault against the other,  in order to get a divorce. The  Bill is being promoted as a  beneficial provision  to women.

We need to understand that marriages function on a gendered premise where there is wide disparity between the roles, functioning and responsibilities of husbands and wives. While men's contribution to the marriage relationship is mainly economic, most women contribute to the marriage in non-economic terms as home makers and primary care takers of their children. At the time of divorce, women's non-economic contribution is not taken into account as we still follow the old English system of dividing the property based on title.

We cannot overlook the fact that for a large number of women, marriage continues to be an economic partnership and divorce disentitles them from all economic claims against their husbands except the right to a paltry amount of maintenance. When husbands file for divorce on the ground of women's cruelty, adultery or desertion, a great deal of bargaining takes place in and out of courts during 'settlement' meetings.  If the husband himself is guilty of adultery, bigamy, cruelty or desertion, a principle also prevails that 'no one will be allowed to take advantage of one's own wrong'.

These concepts help women to negotiate economic settlements in proceedings for divorce filed by the husband.  The husband is usually aware that he may not succeed in proving these allegations and hence he is willing to provide a lump sum settlement to his wife, in order to obtain the desired divorce. Introducing the ground of irretrievable breakdown of marriage will take away this negotiating power from the woman concerned.

Based on our long term work in defending women in trial court litigation, not just in Mumbai but in smaller district towns of Maharashtra, most women whose husbands file for divorce come from middle and lower economic strata where women are primarily home makers  and the petitions are filed by husbands who have abandoned the wives and are in a new relationship.  When allegations of cruelty, desertion or adultery hurled at their wives cannot be substantiated,
  the ground that  the marriage  is 'broken down irretrievably'  is advanced. 

While understanding that one cannot cling to a marriage which has become 'dead wood' (a phrase often used in judgements) we need to spell out the non-economic contribution of the wife to the marriage while arriving at divorce a settlement. Today the negotiation depends vastly on the need of the husband for a divorce and the woman's power of resisting the divorce. In  the event that this power  is being taken out of  women, it needs to be replaced by certain statutory protection in terms of  distribution of property / assets of the spouses. Only then will we be able to secure the rights of a vulnerable class of women.

We would like to explain that, it is not our position that such a legislation should not be introduced at all. This principle is being invoked since 1993 by the Supreme Court and various High Courts on a selective, case to case basis.  Our concern is that if this ground is introduced by way of an amendment to the matrimonial law, and is used indiscriminately, it will impoverish, many  women who have been in long term marriages and have contributed  to the marriage, only as home makers. It will render these women destitute and totally dependent upon their natal family, which may or may not support them, after several years of marriage. 

It is not our case that some women will not be benefited by this introduction.  It will be beneficial to those women who want to be out of their marriages, and need no economic support from their husbands.  But a large number of women are outside of this framework and need to negotiate economic support at the time of divorce.  Issues such as whether it has been a long term or short term marriage,  whether the wife is a wage earner and also a  home maker or merely a home maker, and which of the spouses is desirous of obtaining  a divorce and is keen to move on in life become key concerns in this discourse. Other factors such as age and class also play a part.

Hence we propose that a discussion over women's right to matrimonial home and property should proceed alongside the discussion on irretrievable breakdown of marriage so that certain safeguards can be built into the proposed legislation to secure women's rights.




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Palash Biswas
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http://nandigramunited-banga.blogspot.com/

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